Hello Everyone,

After a long break, finally I made my mind to write something here. Last two weeks I have been through a hell, and completely unexpected things were happening with me. Till before two weeks the word “Hacking” to me is like a fun word but this single thing can change your complete reputation in society, this single thing can change your life that is what happened with me.

I will tell you guys the complete story; me and one of my friend chatted on Google talk and we were very frequent. Mostly we talk about other friends in a light minded humor way and all this chat get stored in chat history of our Google account. Now comes the twister part, someone of our group hacked my friends Google account and took snap shots of our chat and made public to our other friends, and they represent as we are the most worst people on this earth because in some of the chats we used some bad words about one of the girl and that is also not seriously. The mastermind behind this represents all this as very serious issue like we are planning something. Adding more to it this, the planners took copy and paste our chat on notepad and edited it and add very bad words about our very good friends and convinced them that these guys are dirty minded people. Now everyone is convinced that we are not civilized people we think dirty about them and they stopped talking to us.

I was completely shocked when I got this news and now I am not able to prove myself not guilty. I am in such pressure that not able to do work in the office, 24 hours a day I am trying to find a way to prove that we are not such kind of people, we accepted that yes we did chat about someone in which we use some bad words but for other people we don’t even think that way, I am shocked and sad because those were my really good friends and they have lot of trust on me and now I am nowhere. They don’t even want to see my face or talk to me. How should I explain to them that all this is just a game plan by someone else to degrade us?

I know what you are thinking now, that why should one plan something like this against us, so the reason is the person about whom we were chatted using some bad words had a tiff with my friend on the day before all this occurred and by doing this she is taking revenge and I am the one who is facing all this without doing anything.

If someone has some suggestions which helps me to come clean out of this please help.

Jumbled Up......!!

Hi,
I don’t know what is going on with me; I have started realizing that I am unable to handle the relationships in correct manner. Everybody around me is just so angry with me. I don’t know why all such things are happening, though I am constantly making efforts to fulfill everyone’s expectation that they have from me, but still I am failed.
One of my very good friends is very angry with me because I don’t give time to talk for just one or two days and that is because of my some very urgent work. Another friend who is also very angry just because I don’t have time for two or three days because of my office work.
What should I do, I mean should I always live for others, just to make them happy by listening to their problems, or by just be with them , by listening their achievements, or laugh with them in spite I have loads of tension on my head. What about me, what about my problems, what about my time, what about my work, Aren’t they important to my friends also as they are to me, don’t they think that sometimes I may also have some problems. I just can’t understand why I am always at the position where I have to just listen and console them or laugh with them or be with them no matter how much important work of mine is getting spoiled.
How should I change all this crap? After giving a thought to this problem I have found that, this problem has some credit to my time mismanagement also.
I can explain, like if I committed to some of my friend that I will give you a call at this time, and I just couldn’t make it on time, then it is but obvious that, he/she will get angry.
I just don’t know when it will get better or when I will change my bad habit of time mismanagement. You just can’t imagine that how much you have to suffer in life because of this time mismanagement.

Good Morning

Hello Everyone
Good morning, here I am all set to publish my second post for my blog. Today is rakshabandhan (a Hindu festival). Those who don’t know about this Indian festival let me give a brief intro about it. It is a festival of brother and sister, today sisters will tie the wrist of their brothers with colored threads and brothers gladly takes on the responsibility of protecting her sister. This is something very sacred and true feelings which we Indian have, and these are the festivals which keep us together and close.
History witnesses that for this single thread tied by sister, how many brave men hugs the death happily for the vow they have taken of the protection of their sister. These are the tradition and values we strongly believe.
Now i am going to celebrate this festival, hope whoever reads this post and never heard of Rakshabandhan, is now having some brief idea about this festival.
So enjoy and take care

Auspicious Day - 15th AUgust 2008

Today is my first post for my blog and I am glad that it has started on the very special day for all the Indians. We have just entered into the 62nd year of our Independence. Today is 16th of August and the clock has just crossed the 15th. Independence Day, this word Independence has too many emotions in it. We the young generation will never feel the agony, the cheer or the passion for independence. And I am saying this not because it is written again and again in newspapers or magazines that young generation will never feel the importance of independence, but i do feel it strongly. Often we take the miss interpretation of independence. Here I think I have started the speech. Well the basic motto of writing this blog of mine is to splurge out all the things running in my mind day and night. I don’t know, it has any worth or not but I want to write it so I am writing it, as simple as that. So here I am sharing the experience of mine on the day of 15th of August 2008. Well I have started my day late in the morning as usual, and the first thing I did after I woke up is to put on the Television, this is not something I do everyday but today since childhood my mother fills an expression in our mind that, on such kind of days whatever our Prime minister or our President speaks to the nation is very much important and we have to see the parade of our armed forces and of other various states. But I forgot that all such happenings are of 26th January, which is our Republic day, so I just scrolled up the channels, and I saw one movie was there on Bharat Ratna Dr Bheem Rao Ambedkar and I have seen the whole movie. I don’t know why, but if you can ask to any Indian who has something in their hearts and mind for their country, today we feel something different within us, I don’t know about others but I do feel the difference from other days. Anyways for Indians Dr. Ambedkars name is not new and those who don’t know about this great man should read about him. Firstly a brief introduction of Dr Ambedkar, he came from the most oppressed community of Indian society and reached to the pinnacle of the Indian Politics and showed a path of light to each individual who belongs to the oppressed community anywhere in the world. After that movie, my day started and I was fully charged up and enthusiastic about the day, after my breakfast I headed to meet my friend came for Rakshabandhan (An Indian Festival) from Pune. After that I cam back home and again I sit in front of television, nowadays Beijing Olympics are going on, and one of our Indian has created the history called Abhinav Bindra, the hero, I have seen his victory moment on Television so many times till now and every time I saw the moment that Indian Flag is up above all other flags and Our National Anthem is playing on foreign land, I am just so thrilled. Now this pleasant gift to the nation just before Independence day is an excellent gift, one more good news for India today on 15th August that, one more Indian Hero Akhil Kumar has entered into the Quarter Finals of Boxing championship after defeating the world champion from Russia called Sergei. I saw the interview of Akhil Kumar on T.V and one tremendous line he has said that “Whenever I play in the ring, always my effort is to make my opponent and everyone in the arena should know that the player is from India, that is the impact I want to create, that is the only name “India” I want to hear again and again in the Arena. I just want to WIN and nothing else”. I feel that these are our modern days Patriots, who just want to win for the country nothing more and nothing less. There are lot of names you will heard everywhere on 15th August, Shaheed Bhagat Singh, Subhash Chandra Bose, Lal BAhadur Shahstri, Mahatma Gandhi, Jawahar Lal Nehru, Sardar Patel, Maulana Azaad, Chandrashekhar Azaad, Bahadur Shah Zafar and many others. These are the names of our Freedom Fight Heroes. These are the real heroes. In all of the above mentioned names, Shaheed Bhagat Singh was the youngest one. At the age of 23 years, he was hanged till death by the Britishers and he fearlessly kisses his death Dias for his country. Now I am feeling bit sleepy so ….i will continue in my next post Bye n take care